famous Asexual people
July 13th 2008 10:46
alleged Asexual celebrities and historical figures:
Cliff Richard (born 1940) singer
Karl Lagerfeld (born 1938) fashion designer Chanel
J. M. Barrie (1860-1937) author Peter Pan
Jorge Luis Borges (1899-1986) author The Garden of Forking Paths
Emily Brontë (1818-1848) author Wuthering Heights
Immanuel Kant (1724-1804) philosopher transcendental idealism
Isaac Newton (1643-1727) physicist
Florence Nightingale (1820-1910) nurse
Nikola Tesla (1856-1943) inventor alternating current
fictional characters who are considered Asexual:
Dexter (TV)
Dr Who (TV)
Dr House (TV)
Sherlock Holmes (by Arthur Conan Doyle)
Wilbur Larch (Cider House Rules by Irvine)
Cathy Ames (East of Eden by Steinbeck)
V (film V for Vendetta)
Jughead (Archie cartoon)
Brian Lackey (film Mysterious Skin)
Lincoln Six-Echo (film The Island)
so what exactly is Asexuality?
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Cliff Richard (born 1940) singer
Karl Lagerfeld (born 1938) fashion designer Chanel
J. M. Barrie (1860-1937) author Peter Pan
Jorge Luis Borges (1899-1986) author The Garden of Forking Paths
Emily Brontë (1818-1848) author Wuthering Heights
Immanuel Kant (1724-1804) philosopher transcendental idealism
Isaac Newton (1643-1727) physicist
Florence Nightingale (1820-1910) nurse
Nikola Tesla (1856-1943) inventor alternating current
fictional characters who are considered Asexual:
Dexter (TV)
Dr Who (TV)
Dr House (TV)
Sherlock Holmes (by Arthur Conan Doyle)
Wilbur Larch (Cider House Rules by Irvine)
Cathy Ames (East of Eden by Steinbeck)
V (film V for Vendetta)
Jughead (Archie cartoon)
Brian Lackey (film Mysterious Skin)
Lincoln Six-Echo (film The Island)
so what exactly is Asexuality?
An “asexual” person is someone who has no desire to have sex.
Asexuality is not a choice like celibacy.
Asexuals do not experience sexual attraction, do not find sexual behaviour appealing and are not compelled to form sexual relationships. Asexuals are not driven to have sex with other people . . .
Asexuality is not a choice like celibacy.
Asexuals do not experience sexual attraction, do not find sexual behaviour appealing and are not compelled to form sexual relationships. Asexuals are not driven to have sex with other people . . .
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Comment by RubySoho
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oh no, sounds like flu, you poor thing!
yeah Asexuals are all around us! haha
Jughead resonated with me too . . .
Comment by RubySoho
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Actually the one that surprised me most was Karl Lagerfield. I guess I just assumed he was gay.
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Jughead, I used to read that, and Archie, Little Lotte, Richie Rich etc, I guess, from the cartoonist's perspective, it would be hedging ones financial bets to keep fictional characters, especially cartoon/comics ones, asexual.
Then again, there were an awful lot of super heroes in tights and flashy capes and stuff.. ahem..
cheers
fog
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i looked into Karl Lagerfeld a bit more, and it seems due to a platonic relationship with a homosexual man he is often mistaken for being gay
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Fog,
i think Jughead is the member of the gang who never has any relationships or shows any romantic interest in anyone
Comment by Morgan Bell
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thanks for sharing that story, i like hearing about other Asexual people . . . and particularly good to hear they are happy and feel normal in single life . . . human beings really are diverse little creatures!
thanks for the comment!
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i havent watched alot of stooges, did they ever have lady friends?
ive heard people say the smurfs are asexual! haha
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hahahaha great names!
i did not know about these strangely named wives, perhaps the stooges really were sexually motivated?
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thanks for the info Don
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My load is done gotta go.
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from In the Sweet Pie and Pie (1941)
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Perhaps everyone I ever meet or find attractive is asexual!
Help me please - I need some kind of excuse to make me feel better!!!
Wasn't Cliff Richard married??
I also thought Dr Who was bisexual or it meant little to him as he is an alien and his ides of sexuality are much different than the mere mortal.
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Fascinating stuff...
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Now - as for the Wombles and Humphrey - hmmm - perhaps I've gone a little bit too far.
Comment by postmoderncritic
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I met an asexual intellectual with radical views online at the beginning of the year - he lives in San Jose, California and has everything from data entry to bodybuilding while developing his theories and writing his book. He's a very smart guy and will probably sell a lot of his book. I hope he gets some of the recognition he is after. He identifies as a postmodernist, yet he believes in a metanarrative (a universalising philosophy) so I don't see him as such.
More power to asexuals!
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I fond this site, hope it helps someone
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Comment by Morgan Bell
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in some circles Cliff is regarded as a celibate christian or a closeted homosexual but im going to claim him as an Asexual!
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as for Dr Who i read that the 8th doctor had an occassional out-of-character pash but all the others were completely dis-interested in sex, i guess he could be a sexless alien? haha
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thanks for stopping by, i find it fascinating too!
hi MNG,
ever since i saw the acted movie of Scooby Doo i have trouble remembering the cartoon, but in the movie Thelma has a love interest and Daphne helps her dress up for a date . . . i always thought in the cartoon it was implied she had a lesbian crush on Daphne haha that could just be my imagination . . . Humphrey is definately Asexual!
hi epiphanie,
i like how you said "postmodernist" like that was also a sexuality! haha
geez you really do know a broad spectrum of people from all over the world!
hi Anne,
i have seen that Asexualic site before, but thanks for bringing it up!
seems strange the idea of Asexual people only befriending other Asexual people . . . i think im so used to the sexual context of our culture that i actually cant imagine a whole society of Asexuals . . . i wonder what it would be like?
Comment by postmoderncritic
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I really love making friends all over the world. I just discovered a postmodernist (a hardcore one, at that) from Egypt, of all places! They're so rare, and I really wasn't expecting to find one in the developing world, let alone a predominantly Muslim country, so I'm happy... I've invited him to marry me to get the citizenship if he likes, though he's going to be finishing off his PhD in the next year. Well, he might actually get US citizenship because I am apparently moving there after a year (woohoo, I've been wanting to move there for years)!
You will find more asexual ppl out there, I'm sure.
Have a great day now~
Comment by Louie
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Excuse my ignorance but would asexual people still get married and just not have sex, or do they generally just have friends and be "single" ????
Comment by Morgan Bell
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i think Asexuality has alot in common with closeted homosexuality with regards to lifestyle choices . . . gay men and women often enter into heterosexual marriages for reasons other than sex eg: companionship, financial security, reproduction, keeping up appearances
once in a marriage not based on sexual attraction theres a whole host of reasons the Asexual or the closeted gay partner may engage in sex, often just to please the sexual parter who they care for
Asexuals are usually thought of in two categories "sex aversion" and "sex indifference", so they could either really object or just not care
and just like gay people, Asexuals are all different so some have romantic partners, or platonic companions, others are single social butterflies or workaholics, and others are introverted recluses
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Comment by D. Armenta
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When 2 people get to know, respect, love and trust one another more than anyone else they've ever known,want to commit to being partners for life and one is asexual, they simply come to an arrangement.
I never understood what all the fuss was about.
Comment by Louie
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I know a person very cl ose to me is living like this and the son they have is themost prescious loved thing in their lives, possibly the world
thanks guys.
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its become a trend since the sexual revolution to say that a "healthy" marriage must include sex, the implication being that sex is the most meaningful or valid form or intimacy
this may be true for some Sexual people, it may be important to have sex a certain amount of times per week etc
some Sexual people may look outside their marriages if they are not being pleased at home
i think it is important for most Sexual people to be made to feel attractive and wanted sexually
these are my observations anyway
couples who go to marriage counsellors are often told they need to be sexually active to have a "healthy" relationship
while this may be true for the majority of the populations it isnt rue for Asexuals
i get what you are saying that marriages shouldnt be based "solely" in sex but often it is a major motivating factor, and for many people a very important component
thanks for the comment
Comment by Morgan Bell
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oh i know what you mean . . . it is impossible not to try and stick labels all over people . . . i think we all analyze our friends and what motivates them
hi anon,
dont even get me started on scooby doo and shaggy haha
hi slacko,
different strokes for different folks, it varies amongst individuals . . . its not really linked to the attraction people feel towards others
thanks for the comments everyone
Comment by Jeff Musall
As for marriage, it isn't important in all, I'm sure - but for those who consider sex a big component, I think it is a very strong reason to "not wait" to have sex. If it is important and you find out after the wedding there is no or little interest on the part of one partner, a recipe for marital problems.
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dogmatic belief? haha
ummm no, generally not
there are quite a few cultures who choose to participate in periods of abstinance or celebacy, it is considered a sacrifice or self-restraint because it is assumed sex is something they desire
if you find other people sexually attractive and desire to have sex with them you are probably not Asexual
i guess it is possible that Asexual people may find it easier to enter professions or roles where celebacy is a requirement, like some religious ministers or nuns, or people that work on oil rigs or in the navy?
but i imagine alot of people of faith do it as a challenge not because they were born that way
thanks for the comment
Comment by RubySoho
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But not the catholic clergy apparently. Sorry cheap shot, but in honour of WYD SYD, I am just about all things catholic at the moment.
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haha thanks for the delightful mental image of Jughead!
OMG Rupert the bear! i love him!
Ruby and Epiphanie,
now now . . . play nice ladies!
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My friend in San Jose told me that he sometimes masturbates to relieve tension, but if he couldn't do it for some reason he would feel no great loss, it would be perfectly fine.
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Comment by Morgan Bell
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sounds like the old Jughead did a bit of experimenting in later life! haha
thanks so much for the trivia, you are now officially the resident Jughead expert!
hi epiphanie,
thats interesting about your friend, thanks for sharing!
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Did they ever do a live action Archie??
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"Oh, sorry dear. Daddy and I don't find each other attractive anymore, so we'll be going our separate ways. Ta-ta!"
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i think i will refer those questions to Toni as im really not sure
hi D,
it happens all the time, men leaving their wives for younger more sexually active women, or vice versa
whats the divorce rate nowadays? haha
but yeah, no joking matter where kids are involved
hi slacko,
it is amazing how diverse human beings really are
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yes, bang on! haha
i think i know what you mean . . .
i think in different periods of history a high sex drive wasnt as valued as it is today, esp for women, in some eras you were probably thought of as a witch or given a scarlet letter if you had a high sex drive
one day we will accept that there is no one lifestyle or social standard that will fit all . . . people dont want to be pressured to have sex or humiliated for wanting sex . . . embrace diversity!
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Jughead 20 years later? I must find this!
Bryn, I was so down with Veronica, but I could never decided if I liked Betty better. She was sometimes corny, sometimes cheesy, but every now and again, she'd be so down to earth and lookin' fine. At least, to my 8-year-old mind.
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how interesting, i didnt realise little boys had crushes on cartoons . . . you learn someting everyday!
hi epiphanie,
i think the unrealistic portrayal of sex and sexuality in the commercial media frustrates everyone!
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i can imagine the cartoon centrefold that must be in the mens magazines!
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Never static, life changes for the open minded and i can say I have been both highly sexed and asexual over the years... especially now as men-o-pause approaches. time to rest ... and to answer D... yes indeed partners wax and wane, but not all split up... friendship counts for a lot in many marriages.
I always thought of Tin Tin as an asexual character, and every now and then, even Harry P.?
L ...
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i love the expression "wax and wane"!
thanks for the character suggestions and the insight into marriage, always good to get an insiders opinion!
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He constantly hits on women, flirts, makes crude comments, has HAD SEX, has been showed having had ENJOYED that sex...am I missing something?
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Asexuals can have sex and relationships and joke about sex, theyre not nuns
Dr House has been characterised as a loner with chronic pain who has had a girlfriend in the past but in general seeking out sex is not a motivating factor in his behaviour
He has a long term emotional flirtation with Cameron but is generally indifferent about transforming the relationship into something sex-based
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yes i am - and theres not alot of web content on the subject so it is one of the themes of this (my more personal) blog
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hey thats a really good suggestion!
some considered him to be Asexual, and many others believed him to be a latent or closeted homosexual - his life appears to have been largely sexless
thanks for contributing!
Comment by Luke
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I think most of the famous people on that list are probably people who were too afraid to come out of the closet. Let's add Kevin Spacey to that list.
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i didnt know that about Cliff . . . wow!
its hard to say whether other people are latent homosexuals or asexuals . . . and the older the historical figure, the more pressure there would have been for them to be closeted . . . i guess the only reliable way of knowing is self-identification, and even that can change over time
thats really interesting about Cliff though, ill have to google it and get the goss
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Cliff Richards companion is Father John McElynn
of the relationship Cliff said:
Cliff and John may have a non-sexual romantic relationship, or strong plantonic friendship, one or both of them might have a homosexual "romantic orientation" with no sexual feelings . . . just tossing up a few possibilities
oops sorry Cliff, i just cant help myself
source: Really Long Link
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yeah he could definately be gay, i wouldnt rule it out
all the famous persons on my list are just alleged, not confirmed (incl Cliff), so i havent seen a confirmation either way
i know Cliff is Christian and still publicly supports gay marriage, which in a way that makes him seem unafraid of religious backlash to his sexuality, but overtones of guilt and shame etc associated with how he grew up and family/church expectations may still apply when it comes to how "out" he wants to be
however keep in mind that many Asexuals have a "romantic orientation" that isnt based on sex drive
have you done a review of Cliff's book?
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House regularly makes reference to pornography and prostitutes, but i feel it is largely for shock value . . . he had a prostitute visit his home once but we didnt see what happened after she entered the apartment
his character may develop in a different direction as the show progresses, but currently he has shown an aversion to sexual relationships/intimacy
i wonder where the flirtation with Cuddy is heading?
on a side note, ive heard it said that Asexuals would make great prostitutes because they just dont care . . . food for thought!
Comment by matus infiniti
and our mythology..places a great emphasis on brahmacharya..sexual abstinence..and homosexuality is still a big taboo..inspie of the influx of western ideas...just thought i wud share a bit of what i know..nice blog by the way
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I'm a little confused about my own orientation, but I think I'm probably asexual.
I do find some women attractive, but my fantasies about them typically involve me talking to them.
Whenever I fantasize sex with aforementioned women, I get bored with the idea really fast. Its like I experience the attraction, but have no urge to act on it.
Am I asexual, or should I go for that awful testosterone replacement therapy or something?
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Thanks for the info.
@ Anonymous-54
I presume you are aware of the plethora of non-hetero-intercourse ways to produce children. Basically the only criteria for a male is active sperm.
@ Allen
It's funny how the word "attraction" is used as an umbrella term for so many different meanings: good-looking, pretty, handsome, beautiful, eye-catching, sultry, sensual, seductive, engaging, charming, likable, warm, friendly, captivating, dynamic, exciting, fit, healthy, intelligent, funny etc.
And so often I find we describe people as "attractive" based on what we assume (or deduce) that other people find sexually appealing, even though it has little to do with our own feelings of sexual attraction.
The difference between a sexual orientation and a sexual dysfunction (that would require medical treatment) is basically whether you find your low/zero sex drive to be distressing. If you are cool with it then you are probably asexual, but only you can decide your identity.
You may also want to look into "grey asexuals", that is a person that exhibits some traits of an asexual person and some traits of a sexual person, they are in-betweeners.
Grey Asexuals explained.
@ Luke
Well by that reasoning a straight man can never know he is straight until he has engaged in same-sex intercourse.
I think each individual can decide for themselves who they are attracted to (or not) without some kind of standardised testing.
Even within straight men, not every man is attracted to every woman. Often people have heights, weights, shapes, colours (hair/skin), voices, body-hair, facial features etc. that they never go for. They don't have to sleep with every variety to know, it's just an innate sense.
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2.) Dr. House has been bang Dr. Cuddy all season. So you can forget that.
3.) I would love to add Michael Jackson to the list because he never seemed straight or gay. & That pedophilia crap was just plain bullshit.
4.) Am I asexual because I have had no real interest in ANYONE, male or female in almost 20 years?
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